OFF THE RECORD: Flyleaf Spreads Their Wings by Carl Phelan (2014)

flyleafbookBy Ryan Smith

With this article, I’m pleased to introduce a new segment to Replicant Ears Magazine. The goal with ‘Off the Record’ is to shine the spotlight on music in other media. Film, television, literature… In other words, music-related things that don’t otherwise fit into any of our other categories. This time round, I’m spotlighting a brand new book on Flyleaf, one of my favourite bands of all time.

Written by Carl Phelan, grandfather of Flyleaf guitarist Jared Hartmann, Flyleaf Spreads Their Wings features a journey through the band’s history from 2002 to present. From when they were called Listen and then Passerby, to when vocalist Lacey Sturm decided to retire and Kristen May of Vedera was brought in to replace her. Most of the book is a one year per chapter account, while the rest is a very comprehensive list of all of the band’s tour dates and stories from both the band members, the families of the band members, and longtime fans of the band. There is also a brief photographic history of the time covered by the book.

Dearest readers, I have been a fan of Flyleaf since early on in 2006, when I asked a co-worker to show me something like Breaking Benjamin. He met the challenge so well it began a years long love for the band. I can still remember parking my car as close to Lake Ontario as I could during night shifts so I could catch the band on New York’s 103.3 The Edge (the band had not yet broken into the Canadian market). Eventually, I had to special order the record. When I heard that someone as close to Flyleaf as the guitarist’s grandfather had written a book on the band, I grew very excited and dove headlong into the thing as soon as I got it. My official take on the book? It’s a neat, not unenjoyable read for a very big fan, but it’s definitely not what I expected.

Carl Phelan.

Carl Phelan.

Allow me to elaborate. My first and foremost gripe with Flyleaf Spreads Their Wings is that it was not written by a ‘writer.’ It’s great that someone very close to Flyleaf, who has a genuine love for them and a tremendous understanding of what they are all about, has chosen to author the book, but it becomes apparent early on that Mr. Phelan is a proud grandfather (for good reason) first and a storyteller second. While the book does take the reader step by step through the band’s early history (the early bits are definitely the more detailed, which is great because a lot of us already know the more recent history), I was expecting the account to be much more candid. There aren’t a lot of facts I didn’t already know about going in, and there’s surprisingly little about the upbringings of the individual members.

What I did love about the book are the brief glimpses into the struggle the band had to endure in getting where they are. This band worked hard. I’m amazed at the work ethic that drove them into such ruthless touring and recording schedules. The book also features photos from early on in the band’s career that I had not seen before. It’s really neat to see Lacey’s powerful stage presence alive even back then. Still, being the author had access to many old photographs, it would have been fascinating to see some pictures of the band members as children and during some of their key moments growing up.

The highlight for me, in Flyleaf Spreads Their Wings, are the stories told by family and friends of the band, which Carl Phelan has compiled for us. Perhaps the most touching for me were the stories told by Kat Hartmann (Jared Hartmann’s wife), Lori Mosely (Lacey Sturm’s mother), and some of the bits on the late Rich Caldwell, who had been the band’s sound engineer since the beginning before he passed away in a tragic accident a couple of years ago.  There are also clippings from old reviews and interviews that act as a mean time capsule, capturing the hopes, dreams, and opinions of the band members during pivotal moments in their careers.

Do I think Flyleaf Spreads Their Wings is worth the read for Flyleaf fans? Absolutely. While you won’t find anything groundbreaking, it is quite cool to be able to look back through the stories, pictures, and tour dates and trace the path of such a wonderfully talented and inspirational band. It’s a light read, similar to leafing through your average magazine, but there are some great points of view to landmark Flyleaf moments that should not be missed by fans.

“Broken Wings,” as performed by Passerby, before renaming themselves Flyleaf:

(NOTE: this is one of two early versions of the track I have found. The song was also re-recorded for the band’s 2012 album New Horizons. I also enjoy Kirsten May’s delivery on the live version from Who We Are, but I find the version below to be the superior of all of the recordings. While it is missing some great things from the newer version, it somehow seems more complete to me. Enjoy!)

RYAN SMITH spends a great deal of his time under troll bridges shaking his fist and hollering obscenities at the mainstream, but occasionally finds himself on the side of a pop act that the underground has disowned. A schizoid fan for the 21st century? Although he has a diverse musical taste that runs the gamut from black metal to country to most forms of jazz, Ryan’s first love will always be progressive music.


10 thoughts on “OFF THE RECORD: Flyleaf Spreads Their Wings by Carl Phelan (2014)

  1. Ryan, I would like to thank you personally for writing such an inspiring article about The Flyleaf Band and the book “Flyleaf Spreads Their Wings’. You have given me , my family and the band members a huge boost in morale. i am eternally grateful to you for this outstanding piece of journalism. Respectfully, Carl Phelan

      • Ryan, I am glad you enjoyed the book. I hope your article will spread the word and help to get more people to get the book. This book has been a labor of love for me and my family for 12 years, since May of 2002. I am now 84 years old ans still kicking. Any way that you can help me to promote this book will be greatly appreciated, later Carl Phelan

  2. Ryan, I would like to explain why I did not have stories about the band members early. I had a lot of stories and photos of Jared but did not have access to the other members and it was very difficult to contact their parents. I tried hard to get information from members and their families but was not able to. The band was so busy and dedicated to their music that none of them would answer emails or any other social media forms. I do plan to write a 2nd edition in about another year. I will try to get some info about the other members. One thing I do remember was that Jared was a big fan of Elvis and i have a series of Jared as he was dressed just like Elvis and had all of his moves. Jared was also a huge fan of Batman. A lot of his birthday parties had the theme of Batman and everyone wore Batman costumes. More later, Carl

  3. I would like to give you the main reasons I wrote the book ‘Flyleaf Spreads Their Wings’ 1. For God 2. For Family & Friends 3. For all 5 members of the Flyleaf band 4. For Forever Faithful Fans of Flyleaf around the whole world. My hope is when Jesus returns he will say ‘Well Done My Good And Faithful Servant, Respectfully, Carl Phelan
    P.S. I would sure like for you to write a review and post it on, thanks.

    • Hey Carl,

      Thanks so much for the follow-up notes! I’m glad you’ve taken such an active role behind the scenes. A lot of times stuff like this gets left behind and eventually lost!

      We have just published our review of the band’s new album Between the Stars today at

      While I’m afraid it gets a little critical in places, I have enjoyed the album a great deal. Your book actually helped me appreciate the record more than I think I would have had I not read it.

      Thanks again, all the best!

      – rs

      • Ryan, thank you so much for your uplifting comments and for your outstanding review of ‘Between The Stars’. You have made my day. I hate to ask you to do something else for me but I think it is very important. I would like for you to do a review of my book and then put it on the Review page. Your expertise will be a great boost to my success as a writer. It does not have to be long just straight to the point. You have a great gift of expression. Thanks, Respectfully, Carl

  4. Ryan, I was going through some of my Flyleaf Reviews and I came across a review by Ryan Smith about Flyleaf’s CD, ‘Who We Are’ in December of 2013. It was another outstanding piece of journalism. The next time I get to talk to Jared and the band I will ask them if they have read your reviews. Thanks for all you do, later Carl.

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